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manipulate verb (used with object), ma·nip·u·lat·ed, ma·nip·u·lat·ing.to manage or influence skillfully, especially in an unfair manner: to manipulate people's feelings. Here are a few things I've learned and my advice on what to do when you encounter someone with a manipulative personality. Things a manipulative person does: Knowingly does something hurtful towards you, but when in your presence acts as a confidante. Manipulative people usually have an agenda.…