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Hi, I’m Elizabeth — welcome to my cozy corner of the internet.

I write about travel, cozy living, product reviews, favorite finds, and the little joys that make life sweet.

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Cozy stories, honest moments, heartfelt travel, and the beauty in everyday life.

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    How We Threw an Easy & Affordable Spider-Man-Themed 3rd Birthday Party

    Planning my son’s Spider-Man-themed 3rd birthday party was so much fun! From budget-friendly decorations and toddler-approved food to superhero activities like shooting silly-string spider webs, I’m sharing all the details from our affordable and memorable celebration.

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  • Minimalist brown line-art drawing of a toddler kneeling on the floor and coloring on a piece of paper, with a crayon beside them. The background is a soft beige-pink shade, and the title “Fun + Practical Toddler Favorites We’re Loving Right Now” appears above in a dark brown serif font.

    Parenting in the Toddler Tornado: Our Favorite Toddler Must-Haves for Screen-Free Fun, Creative Play & Calm Bedtimes

    Life with a toddler is equal parts chaotic, sweet, and so much fun. Now that my son is two (almost three!), I’ve discovered a handful of everyday items and playful ideas that make our routine smoother and more joyful. From soothing bath-time essentials to creative play must-haves and toddler-friendly adventures, here are some of our…

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    The Grotto of the Redemption: A Beautiful Visit in West Bend, Iowa

    A must-see stop in northwest Iowa, The Grotto of the Redemption in West Bend is a peaceful, family-friendly place filled with stunning stonework and scenes from the life of Christ. We love visiting in late summer, and I’m sharing the moving story behind it—plus a sweet family connection that makes this spot even more special…

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Latest Posts

  • First Presidential Debate of 2020

    First Presidential Debate of 2020

    Here are some memorable moments: On a more serious note, I am appalled by the divisive rhetoric spewed by President Trump. This harmful and toxic pattern needs to come to a stop. If you would like to locate a fact-checker for the debate, please click here. For a general fact-checker on candidates, click here. Here…

  • Movie Review: Mulan (Live-Action) — A Fresh Take on a Classic Heroine

    Movie Review: Mulan (Live-Action) — A Fresh Take on a Classic Heroine

    I finally watched Disney’s live-action Mulan with my fiancé this weekend, and it completely exceeded my expectations! From the stunning costume design and breathtaking visuals to Gong Li’s unforgettable performance as the witch, the film reimagines a beloved story with power and elegance. While I missed Mushu’s playful energy, I loved the deeper emotional layers…

  • Summer ☀️ 2020 Fashion  Inspiration: 🍋 Lemon 🍋  & Kate Spade

    Summer ☀️ 2020 Fashion Inspiration: 🍋 Lemon 🍋 & Kate Spade

    This post showcases a variety of fashion items, including dresses from Lulus and TJMaxx, shoes from Francesca’s, and jewelry by Kate Spade. It highlights a personal touch with handmade earrings available on Etsy and promotes June birthdays with a cancer necklace. The overall theme encourages a joyful and lively spirit.

  • My Fairytale Pandemic Engagement ✨

    My Fairytale Pandemic Engagement ✨

    I have the most magical news to share—last week, my boyfriend of three years asked me to marry him! 💍 I was completely caught off guard and absolutely over the moon. Growing up, I always adored Cinderella, and Josh made my childhood dream come true with the most romantic, fairytale-worthy proposal. To top it off,…

  • Finding My Balance: Living Healthier with Diabetes 🌿

    Finding My Balance: Living Healthier with Diabetes 🌿

    Living with diabetes has been a long, ever-changing journey — but I finally feel like I’ve found my balance. After years of exhaustion and struggle, Ozempic has helped me feel alive again. I’ve lost 15 pounds, regained my energy, and rediscovered what it means to feel healthy. In this post, I’m sharing my personal experience…

  • Finding My Voice: Reflections on Race, Resilience, and Hope

    Finding My Voice: Reflections on Race, Resilience, and Hope

    In a world that feels heavy, I’m learning to find peace, courage, and compassion while reflecting on my experiences with race, identity, and hope for change.

  • How to Support the Black Lives Matter Movement: Simple, Real Ways to Help

    How to Support the Black Lives Matter Movement: Simple, Real Ways to Help

    Not sure how to support the Black Lives Matter movement? This post breaks down simple, meaningful ways to learn, take action, and start important conversations — because change begins with all of us.

  • A Taste of Stockholm: A Summer Foodie Adventure You’ll Never Forget

    A Taste of Stockholm: A Summer Foodie Adventure You’ll Never Forget

    If you’re planning a summer trip to Sweden, make sure to add A Taste of Stockholm to your itinerary! This lively food and beverage festival at Kungsträdgården is a dream come true for food lovers — featuring everything from lobster rolls and Ethiopian tacos to pear wine and live music. It’s the perfect mix of…

  • My Worst (and Funniest) First Date Ever

    My Worst (and Funniest) First Date Ever

    Dating can be equal parts exciting and terrifying — and sometimes, downright hilarious. In this post, I’m sharing the story of my worst first date ever (yes, it’s that bad). From unexpected oversharing to a line that made me want to run for the hills, this Tinder meetup went from promising to cringe in record…

  • Book Review: We’re Going to Need More Wine by Gabrielle Union

    Book Review: We’re Going to Need More Wine by Gabrielle Union

    Gabrielle Union’s We’re Going to Need More Wine is raw, funny, and deeply human. In this honest memoir, she opens up about love, race, trauma, and healing — and for the first time, I felt truly seen through her words. This is one of those rare books that lingers long after the last page.