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  • Cozy Holiday Traditions I’m Bringing Into Motherhood

    Cozy Holiday Traditions I’m Bringing Into Motherhood

    Christmas has always been one of my favorite holidays—but experiencing it through the eyes of my toddler makes everything feel brand-new and magical. These days, our December nights look like cozy blankets, warm mugs of hot cocoa, twinkling lights, and Christmas movies humming quietly in the background. It’s a season that slows me down in the sweetest way.

    There’s something about this time of year that blends joy, giving, thankfulness, and togetherness. And now that I’m navigating motherhood, I’ve been thinking a lot about the traditions I want to carry forward—simple, meaningful rituals that feel like home.

    Here are the cozy Christmas traditions we’re holding close to our hearts as a young family.

    1. Stockings from “Santa”

    Growing up, my mom always told us that Santa was in charge of the stockings—and waking up to see what had magically appeared inside was pure childhood wonder.

    Now, I love continuing that gentle tradition with my own son. Stockings feel like the great equalizer. When kids ask, “What did Santa bring you?” the answers are sweet and simple instead of extravagant. It keeps the magic soft and fair.

    2. Christmas Eve at My Parents’ Home + Church (If Toddler Life Allows!)

    Christmas Eve at my parents’ house is loud, joyful, slightly chaotic, and absolutely perfect. The kitchen is buzzing, the kids are running wild, and there’s so much laughter you can’t help but soak it in.

    And if everything aligns (because… toddlers), we end the night at church. Celebrating Jesus on Christmas Eve adds such a grounding, peaceful moment in the midst of all the fun.

    3. A Slow, Homey Christmas Morning

    One tradition I’m fiercely protective of: a slow Christmas morning at home.

    No rushing.
    No traveling.
    No scrambling out the door.

    Just pajamas, hot tea, unbrushed hair, and watching my toddler tear into his presents with pure, unfiltered joy. These are the moments that make my heart melt every single year.

    4. Family Christmas Photos—Dog Included

    Every year I search for a Santa experience that allows dogs so our whole family can be in the picture.

    It always ends in adorable chaos—wiggly toddler, confused dog, and my husband and I trying to smile—but those imperfect photos are usually my favorites.

    5. A Simple, Meaningful Gift-Giving Philosophy

    Motherhood has shifted how I approach gifts. I lean toward fewer, more intentional items—things that spark creativity, comfort, or connection. For example, I love gifting experiences or adding to my son’s savings account. It keeps everything peaceful, mindful, and sweet.

    6. Our Cozy Christmas Movie & Music Tradition

    If you’ve followed me for a while, you already know I’m a Harry Potter girl through and through. Is it technically a Christmas movie? Maybe not. Does it feel like pure nostalgic holiday magic? Absolutely. And yes… I’m starting my toddler young.

    Our home is also filled with ambient Christmas sounds—the fireplace crackling channels on TV, YouTube ambience rooms, and all the cozy background noise that makes December feel extra warm.

    And of course, Josh Groban and Michael Bublé have been on repeat. Instant Christmas vibes.

    7. A Quick Outdoor Walk (Weather Permitting!)

    If Iowa weather behaves, we bundle up and take a short walk to look at lights and breathe in that crisp winter air.

    My son is currently obsessed with making snow angels, and our dog thinks snow is the best thing ever—so it turns into a full-family adventure every time.

    8. The Sensory Magic of the Season

    Some of my favorite holiday moments aren’t even official traditions—they’re little sensory snapshots I never want to forget:

    ✨ The smell of pine and cinnamon
    ✨ The sound of wrapping paper being torn open
    ✨ The cold morning air during the first dog walk
    ✨ The warm glow of the living room lights at night

    These tiny moments become the memories we talk about long after the season ends.

    Creating Traditions That Feel Like Home

    Motherhood has taught me that traditions don’t need to be elaborate or Pinterest-perfect—they just need to feel like us. These cozy rituals help us slow down, savor the moment, and give our children memories they’ll carry forever.

    And honestly? That’s the real magic of Christmas. 🎄✨

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    • My Hospital Bag Checklist for Mom and Baby

      My Hospital Bag Checklist for Mom and Baby

      If you’re anything like me, packing your hospital bag feels equal parts exciting and “wait… what am I forgetting?” Whether this is your first baby or you’ve done this before, it helps so much to have a cozy little plan so you’re not tossing random things into a tote at 2 a.m.

      This is the hospital bag checklist that kept me feeling prepared, comfortable, and a little more like myself in the middle of a big, emotional, beautiful whirlwind.

      (Quick note: every hospital is a little different, so it’s always worth checking your provider’s list too.)

      The “Don’t Leave Home Without It” Stuff

      1. Birth plan (if you have one)

      Even if it’s just a one-page note with your preferences, it’s so helpful to have something written down. In the moment, it’s nice to not have to explain everything from scratch.

      2. Phone + long charger cord

      You’ll be taking photos, texting updates, and probably scrolling when you can’t sleep. A long cord is a small thing that feels like a luxury in a hospital room.

      3. Important documents

      If you want to be extra prepared, tuck these in a folder:

      • ID + insurance card
      • any hospital paperwork you’ve been given
      • your birth plan (if using one)

      Comfort Items for You

      4. Cozy socks or slippers

      Hospitals can run chilly, and warm feet just make everything feel a little less stressful.

      5. Flip-flops (for walking + showering)

      These are especially handy in the bathroom/shower situation. Easy, practical, and they can be washed later.

      6. Toiletries + “feel like a human again” basics

      This is the stuff that helped me feel refreshed after everything:

      • toothbrush + toothpaste
      • shampoo/conditioner + hair ties
      • face wash + moisturizer/lotion
      • deodorant + lip balm
      • any personal hygiene items you love

      7. Your own pillow (optional but amazing)

      Hospital pillows can be… not great. Bringing your own can make resting feel a lot more doable.

      8. A comfy robe

      Perfect for staying warm, feeling covered, and shuffling around the room without feeling exposed.

      9. Loose, comfy clothes for the hospital + going home

      Think: soft, stretchy, and not restrictive. (You’ll want comfort more than anything.)
      A simple going-home outfit you actually feel good in is such a win.

      Baby Must-Haves

      10. Baby outfits (and one extra!)

      Bring:

      • one outfit for photos or meeting family
      • one comfy going-home outfit
      • an extra outfit (because leaks happen, and babies stay humble 😅)

      Optional: “picture outfits”

      If you want those sweet first photos in the hospital, packing one special outfit makes it easy. For me, doing photos at the hospital felt way less stressful than trying to do it at home — you’ve got help nearby, and you’re not juggling everything alone.

      Quick Printable Checklist

      • Birth plan / preferences
      • ID + insurance card + any paperwork
      • Phone + long charger
      • Cozy socks/slippers
      • Flip-flops
      • Toiletries (toothbrush, hair ties, lotion, lip balm, etc.)
      • Pillow
      • Robe
      • Comfy clothes + going-home outfit
      • Baby outfits (2–3 total)
      • Optional: photo outfit(s)

      Wishing you all the best! What was your “so glad I packed that” item? I’d love to hear it in the comments.

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    • My Favorite Baby Products as a First-Time Mom ☕💛

      My Favorite Baby Products as a First-Time Mom ☕💛

      Hey there, mama (and all the wonderful helpers out there)!
      Welcome in — I’m so glad you’re here. When I became a first-time mom, I quickly learned that finding the right baby gear can feel like a full-time job.

      Every baby and family is different, but these are the products that made our days a little smoother, easier, and happier. Maybe some of these will make your life easier too — or at least give you some registry inspiration.

      So grab a warm cup of coffee, get comfy, and let’s dive in! ☕

      🍼 WillowGo Pump

      Oh, the WillowGo Pump — where do I even start? I wish I had started using it sooner. This cordless, hands-free pump gave me so much freedom. No more being stuck next to an outlet or tangled in cords. I could take walks, do laundry, or comfort my baby while pumping — total game-changer.

      Pro tip: Start with a regular (plug-in) pump when your milk first comes in, then switch to something cordless like this once your supply is established. The convenience is unmatched.

      It’s an investment, but my insurance helped cover part of it — and if that’s not an option for you, there are plenty of great, budget-friendly cordless pumps available too.

      💡 Bonus tip: Keep a manual pump by your bedside for those middle-of-the-night feeds. It’s a quiet lifesaver!

      🤱 BabyBjörn Baby Carrier One

      I wanted to love babywearing from day one — and once I found the right carrier, I did!

      I started with the Solly baby wrap, which was soft and cozy but tricky to tie when I was running on coffee and four hours of sleep. Eventually, I switched to the BabyBjörn Baby Carrier One, and it made all the difference.

      It’s structured, easy to use, and has a removable newborn seat that adjusts as your little one grows (up to about three years old!). It’s comfortable for both of us and perfect for walks, errands, or just getting things done at home.

      Looking back, I probably would’ve gone straight for this carrier from the start. It’s that good.

      🧼 Dr. Brown’s Clean Steam Baby Bottle and Pacifier Sterilizer and Dryer

      I wasn’t sure if I needed a sterilizer at first — but now I can’t imagine going without it. The Dr. Brown’s Clean Steam Sterilizer and Dryer saves so much time and peace of mind.

      It sanitizes, dries, and stores bottles, pacifiers, and pump parts all in one cycle. No more towel drying or guessing if something’s really clean. It’s become part of my daily routine, and I love it.

      🛁 Soft & Snuggly Bath Time Favorites

      Bath time is one of my favorite parts of the day — baby giggles, splashes, and that sweet clean-baby smell.

      I absolutely love the Norwex washcloths washcloths. They’re OEKO-TEX® certified (meaning tested for harmful substances) and some of the softest cloths we own. It’s comforting to know that I can trust this product to be safe for my little one.

      For towels, I found a super soft, budget-friendly option on Temu that’s been a hit. Sometimes I toss it in the dryer before bath time so it’s warm and cozy — my baby lights up when I wrap him in it.

      🎹 Fisher-Price Deluxe Kick & Play Piano Gym

      This one was a surprise hit! My baby wasn’t into his first playmat, but the Fisher-Price Deluxe Kick & Play Piano Gym? He loves it.

      Watching him kick the piano keys and smile at the lights never gets old. It keeps him engaged longer than any other toy so far — definitely worth adding to your registry.

      🌿 Oilogic Baby Vapor Bath

      When my little guy came down with his first cold, the Oilogic Baby Vapor Bath was a lifesaver. I bathed him two or three times a day when he wasn’t feeling well, and it truly seemed to help ease his symptoms.

      It made those tough sick days a little softer — and gave both of us some much-needed comfort.

      💭 Final Thoughts & Little Extras

      If you’re building your Amazon Baby Registry, keep an eye out for sales and the 15% completion discount — I waited for both and saved quite a bit!

      If I could go back, I’d add an outdoor play yard (especially since I had my son in May — perfect for sunny days!), and of course, stock up on diapers, wipes, and baby Tylenol.

      Motherhood is messy, magical, and full of learning curves — and finding products that make it smoother is such a gift. I hope some of these finds help you too.

      If you’ve tried any of these or have your own must-haves, I’d love to hear from you in the comments. Sharing what works is one of the best parts of this journey.

      Thanks for stopping by — and if you enjoyed this post, feel free to send me a coffee ❤ — it keeps the writing (and the mom-ing) going! ☕

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    • My Pregnancy Favorites: What Truly Helped Me Along the Way

      My Pregnancy Favorites: What Truly Helped Me Along the Way

      I’m so excited to share a few of the things that made my pregnancy journey just a little smoother (and a lot more comfortable). Whether you’re expecting, planning, or simply curious, I hope my experience gives you a few ideas to tuck away for your own path.

      🌿 Ritual Prenatal Vitamins

      If there’s one thing I’ve stayed consistent with from pregnancy through postpartum, it’s my Ritual Prenatal Vitamins. They not only helped me feel confident that my baby was getting what he needed, but even my lactation consultant noticed them during my hospital stay! She was so impressed that she said she wanted to order some for herself — and honestly, I wasn’t surprised.

      I still take them now because they’ve become part of my daily wellness routine. The ingredients are clean, thoughtfully sourced, and backed by science — which makes me feel good about what I’m putting into my body.

      🧼 Norwex Cleaning Products

      I have to give a little nod to my Norwegian roots here — my grandpa was Norwegian, so discovering Norwex felt a bit like coming home. I love their mission to reduce harmful chemicals in the home. During pregnancy, it gave me such peace of mind knowing I could keep things clean without worrying about what I was breathing in or touching.

      I still use their cleaning cloths and products daily. They’re effective, long-lasting, and honestly kind of addicting once you get started.

      👟Dr. Scholl’s Leather Kiltie Tassel Slip-on Flats

      Oh, these shoes! I wore them constantly during pregnancy — and still do. The memory foam made them so comfortable, and not having to bend down to tie or buckle anything was a total game-changer. I loved them so much that I ended up buying three pairs (yes, three!).

      Sadly, this exact style isn’t available anymore, but Dr. Scholl’s has some similar slip-ons that are just as comfy and practical. If you’re expecting or chasing a toddler around, trust me — your feet will thank you.

      📖 Bringing Up Bebé

      This book was such an interesting read! While I haven’t put much into practice just yet, I found the differences between French and American parenting styles fascinating. One chapter that really stuck with me talked about how daycare in France is seen as a positive — a way for children to grow independent and social, not as something to feel guilty about.

      Now that I’m back at work after maternity leave, that perspective has been comforting. It’s a gentle reminder that independence can be a gift, even from an early age.

      Pink Stork Nausea Sweets

      If you’ve ever experienced morning sickness (or in my case, all-day sickness), you know the struggle. I came across Pink Stork Nausea Sweets early in my pregnancy, and even though I couldn’t use them as often because of my diabetes, they were such a lifesaver.

      They’re gentle, effective, and actually taste good — a rare combo when you’re feeling queasy. Keep a few in your bag, along with some trusty saltine crackers. Your future self will thank you.

      Aveeno Baby Cleansing Therapy Moisturizing Wash

      During pregnancy, I developed the PUPPS rash (and wow, was it uncomfortable). This Aveeno wash, along with Benadryl, offered much-needed relief. It’s soothing, gentle, and helped calm my skin during those long, itchy nights. If you’re dealing with something similar, I hope it brings you some comfort too.

      🏊‍♀️ Fitness: Swimming

      Swimming was an absolute godsend for me during my pregnancy! I’d get in the water and feel my aches melt away.

      As a diabetic, I also found it helped regulate my blood sugar throughout the day, which was a huge plus. Whether you’re pregnant or just looking for a gentle way to move your body, I can’t recommend swimming enough. It’s restorative in every sense of the word.

      Every pregnancy is different, and what worked for me might look a little different for you — but I hope these little discoveries make your journey a bit easier. 💕

      If you have any favorite products, books, or tips that helped you, please share them in the comments below! I’d love to hear what’s worked for you (and maybe add a few things to my own list).

      Let’s cheer each other on and make this season as calm, joyful, and supported as it can be.

      ☕ Until next time — sending love, strength, and maybe a warm cup of tea your way

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    • Reflections from Sweden: My Grandma’s (Mormor) Words and the Vasa Ship

      Reflections from Sweden: My Grandma’s (Mormor) Words and the Vasa Ship

      While in Sweden, I came across one of my grandma’s old diary entries from her own trip decades ago. On a page titled “Comparisons,” she wrote:

      “Comparison:
      In those days, people feared things
      like lion’s faces. We fear things in
      the shape of mushroom clouds — nuclear bombs.”
      ~ June 1986

      She was writing about the Vasa Ship, the 17th-century Swedish warship that famously sank on its maiden voyage and was later recovered and preserved. The “lion’s face” she mentions refers to the carved lion figurehead at the front of the ship — a symbol of courage and power that’s been part of Swedish culture since medieval times.

      Reading her words while visiting the Vasa Museum myself in the summer of 2017 was surreal. It felt like we were sharing a moment across time — her thoughts from 1986 intertwining with my own experiences.

      I remember watching teams of researchers working carefully on the ship, preserving it for future generations. The recreated colors of the Vasa were so vivid and striking — a reminder that history can breathe again when we take the time to care for it.

      Her reflection about fear — how it changes shape across generations — stuck with me. The world she knew was different, yet her words still ring true.

      Maybe that’s the beauty of shared experiences: even when years and oceans separate us, our thoughts and emotions still find a way to connect.

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      VASA
      A picture of the lion I took at the Vasa Museum!

    • Following My Grandma’s Footsteps in Sweden: Reflections on Equality, Culture & Connection

      Following My Grandma’s Footsteps in Sweden: Reflections on Equality, Culture & Connection

      While reading through my grandmother’s travel diary from her time in Sweden, I came across an entry that stopped me in my tracks:

      “Swedes are allowed to go anywhere, eat in the grass at the palace lawn, see parks as they wish. The new law is that the Princess who is older than her brother will be queen. We Swedes are implementing equal rights for women!”
      ~ Vivian Olson, June 17th

      I found myself smiling — not just because of her words, but because I had nearly the same thoughts during my own visit to Sweden decades later.

      There’s something truly special about how open and accessible life feels there. I remember watching newlyweds taking photos outside a royal palace, families picnicking on the palace lawn, and children playing with their dogs in the gardens. In so many other parts of the world, these spaces are roped off or reserved for the elite. But in Sweden, the royal grounds feel like they belong to everyone. That sense of shared belonging left such an impression on me.

      Just as my grandma observed, Sweden continues to lead with progressive values — especially when it comes to gender equality. Women have a strong voice in government, and citizens tend to vote based on values and policies rather than gender. It’s a refreshing contrast to what I often see in the U.S., where the focus can still be on who is breaking barriers instead of why they’re leading.

      Yet, even in Sweden, there’s acknowledgment that progress is ongoing. Equality is not a finish line but a continual effort — a mindset I think both our nations are still navigating.

      I love seeing how my grandmother’s reflections and mine intertwine — two generations apart, yet observing the same beauty in everyday freedoms and the same hope for equality. Her words remind me how much our perspectives are shaped by those who came before us, and how their journeys continue to guide our own.

      Side Note: Some Swedes still feel their country has work to do in reaching full equality — which makes me wonder: how far behind is the U.S.? Are we striving toward an ideal that even the most progressive nations are still perfecting?

    • A Sense of Unity — Connecting with My Grandmother in Sweden

      A Sense of Unity — Connecting with My Grandmother in Sweden

      Peak morning, this sunny mile through peaceful wooden Sweden,
      sense of a unity of my blood with all I see.
      I wish Mom would have seen this.
      It is so wonderful to think it is my heritage,
      this graceful, serene land.
      Saw a deer back in the wood.”

      — Vivian Olson, June 15th, 1986

      Reading this entry from my grandmother’s diary fills me with so much warmth. When I picture being back in Sweden, it feels like home — calm, familiar, and full of quiet beauty. In so many ways, I feel like my grandparents are there with me, walking those same sunlit paths and breathing in the same crisp air.

      During my own visit to Sweden, I often found myself thinking about those who came before me — the generations that shaped who I am today. My grandma and I both experienced the same awe for the Swedish landscape, the same peace in its forests, and the same feeling of belonging that transcends time.

      There’s something incredibly special about reading her words and realizing we shared this deep appreciation for the country that’s part of our heritage. Her poems and reflections remind me that history doesn’t just repeat itself — it connects us. Even though she’s gone, her voice continues to guide me, bridging the past and present in the most beautiful way.

    • The Stories That Built Me

      The Stories That Built Me

      “I have great respect for the past. If you don’t know where you’ve come from, you don’t know where you’re going.”
      — Maya Angelou

      Every family has stories that shape who they are, and around Christmas a few years ago, I got to hear some of mine. My parents sat me down and shared pieces of our family history that left me in awe — stories of strength, courage, and quiet resilience that built the foundation I stand on today.

      One of those stories was about my great-grandmother’s sister, who worked down South as a schoolteacher. She was light-skinned and could pass as white — something that came with complicated privileges during that time. Across from the school was a hat shop that allowed white customers to try on hats before buying them. Black customers, however, had to purchase any hat they touched. My great-grandmother’s sister would walk into that shop and try on as many hats as she pleased, knowing she could get away with it. It was a small, almost defiant act — one that spoke volumes about navigating an unjust world with quiet boldness.

      Then there was my grandmother’s father — my great-great-grandfather. He was also light-skinned, with light eyes, and worked as a painter at a hotel. One day, he walked in with the Black maids, and his boss pulled him aside.
      “Why did you walk in with the colored women?” the boss asked.
      My great-great-grandfather simply replied, “Well, they play cards with my wife.”
      The manager, shocked, said, “Your wife? You mean to tell me you’re colored!?”
      “Yes, sir,” he said calmly.
      The boss looked around and whispered, “Look, I like you. You’re good at your job. But don’t tell anyone you’re colored, or we’ll have to fire you.”

      Hearing these stories, I felt an ache — pride mixed with sadness. These were people who carried themselves with grace and strength in the face of injustice. People who worked hard, protected their families, and found ways to keep their dignity intact in a world that didn’t always see it.

      Some might say, “The past is the past — why bring it up?” But I think remembering is an act of love. It’s how we honor the struggle, the perseverance, and the humanity that got us here. Forgetting would mean erasing the very roots that keep us grounded.

      If I could talk to them today, I’d tell them how proud I am — proud of the resilience that runs through our blood, proud of the lessons they left behind, proud to carry their spirit forward.

      Resilience. That’s what created me.

      “You may tell a tale that takes up residence in someone’s soul, becomes their blood and self and purpose… That is your role, your gift.”
      — Erin Morgenstern