Tag: travel reflections

  • Seals, Selkies, and a Sweet Irish Sea

    Seals, Selkies, and a Sweet Irish Sea

    Mist, Myth, and Seals: A Memory from Ireland

    I still remember the first thing that hit me.

    Not the cold Atlantic wind.
    Not the sound of waves crashing against the rocks—though they were there too.

    It was the smell.

    A soft, almost sweet scent of the ocean—salt kissed with something floral, gentle instead of sharp. It wrapped around me like a hug, the kind that lingers long after you pull away.

    And then I saw them.

    Seals on the Edge of the World

    We’d driven along the Irish coast, chasing the kind of wild, rugged beauty I’d always imagined from books and movies. You know the places I mean—the road narrows, the sky opens wide, and you can’t quite tell where the land ends and the sea begins.

    That’s exactly where we ended up.

    The air was cool and damp, the kind that settles into your hair and sweater and softens everything around you. I walked toward the overlook, my shoes crunching on the gravel, feeling the mist brush my cheeks before I even saw the water.

    And then, down below—scattered across the rocks like dark little commas on a page—were the seals.

    They lounged and wriggled, occasionally sliding into the sea with effortless grace, as if gravity had never really applied to them. Some bobbed in the water, just their heads visible, like curious neighbors peeking over a fence.

    I stood there and stared.

    Time did that strange, stretchy thing—it could’ve been two minutes or twenty. I didn’t care. I was rooted to the spot.

    The Sweet Smell of the Sea

    I’ve smelled the ocean before—but this was different.

    Maybe it was the curve of the coastline, or the way the wind carried the scent upward along the cliffs. Instead of sharp or briny, the air was gentle. Alive. It felt like the sea was breathing with me.

    Every inhale carried the faintest taste of salt, settling on my lips. Tiny droplets of mist dotted my skin. I closed my eyes for a moment and let myself be there.

    The distant roar of waves.
    The soft flap of wings overhead.
    The low murmur of nearby voices, hushed as if no one wanted to disturb the magic.

    It was one of those rare moments when everything in my body whispered, Remember this. Don’t rush. Stay.

    And I listened.

    Imagining Selkies

    As I watched the seals glide between rock and water, my mind drifted the way it always does in beautiful places—toward stories.

    In Irish and Scottish folklore, there are selkies: seal folk who can shed their skins and walk on land as humans. Creatures caught between worlds, pulled by the sea and the shore all at once.

    Standing there, it felt almost impossible not to imagine it. These weren’t just animals; they felt like quiet keepers of old stories. I pictured a selkie woman on some hidden beach, her seal skin folded beside her, staring out at the same horizon—wondering which life to choose.

    Maybe that’s what drew me in so completely. The sense that this place was layered with myth and memory. The seals became more than adorable little ocean potatoes (which—to be clear—they absolutely are). They became symbols of that in‑between space we all recognize.

    The part of me firmly rooted in Iowa—cozy, landlocked, surrounded by fields, seasons, and familiar roads.

    And the part of me that longs for the unknown: cliffs and crashing waves, legends whispered through sea mist.

    For a few quiet minutes on that cliff, both parts of me felt like they could exist at the same time.

    A Moment I’ll Always Carry

    There’s a very specific snapshot my brain saved from that day:

    I’m standing at the edge of the overlook.
    My hair damp with mist.
    My hands tucked deep into my coat pockets.
    Seals dot the rocks like a secret only the sea understands.
    The ocean stretches endlessly beneath a soft Irish sky.

    And I’m just…there.

    Breathing. Watching. Existing inside this small pocket of time where nothing matters except the rhythm of the waves and the gentle, curious eyes of a few seals.

    I think that’s why I remember the smell so clearly. It’s like the ocean stamped itself into my senses, just to be sure I wouldn’t forget:

    You were here.
    You felt this.
    It was beautiful.

    From the Sea Back to the Midwest

    Eventually—of course—we left. That’s the thing about travel. No matter how magical a place feels, you always have to fold yourself back into regular life again.

    But sometimes, back in Iowa—unloading groceries, chasing my kiddo through the living room, or walking the dog down a familiar street—I’ll get a sudden flash of that Irish coastline.

    The seals, like punctuation marks at the edge of the world.
    The sweetness of the air.
    The way the sky and sea felt like one wide, breathing thing.

    It’s funny how certain memories burrow in quietly and make themselves at home. That day with the seals wasn’t a big, flashy milestone. Not a wedding or a graduation or anything meant for a scrapbook.

    But it’s one my heart returns to when it needs reminding that the world is still full of wonder.

    Those seals taught me something, in their own quiet way: you don’t have to live by the ocean to carry the sea with you. Sometimes it’s enough to have one perfect, misty, seal-spotted afternoon tucked safely away.

    Why I’ll Never Forget It

    Will I see seals in Ireland again someday? I hope so.

    I hope I get to stand on another wind-whipped cliff, feel the mist freckle my face, breathe in that sweet ocean air, and spot those little heads bobbing in the waves. I hope I get to whisper hello to the selkies in my imagination—and thank them again for their stories.

    But even if I never return to that exact spot, I know this:

    That day is part of my internal landscape now. Just like the streets of my hometown and the rooms of every place I’ve ever lived, that cliff by the sea lives in me. When life feels heavy or loud, I can close my eyes and go back—the seals, the wind, the salt, the myth, the stillness.

    And for a sentimental, easily-overwhelmed human like me, that feels like a gift.

    image of irish coast line and sea

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  • Reflections from Sweden: My Grandma’s  (Mormor) Words and the Vasa Ship

    Reflections from Sweden: My Grandma’s (Mormor) Words and the Vasa Ship

    While in Sweden, I came across one of my grandma’s old diary entries from her own trip decades ago. On a page titled “Comparisons,” she wrote:

    “Comparison:
    In those days, people feared things
    like lion’s faces. We fear things in
    the shape of mushroom clouds — nuclear bombs.”
    ~ June 1986

    She was writing about the Vasa Ship, the 17th-century Swedish warship that famously sank on its maiden voyage and was later recovered and preserved. The “lion’s face” she mentions refers to the carved lion figurehead at the front of the ship — a symbol of courage and power that’s been part of Swedish culture since medieval times.

    Reading her words while visiting the Vasa Museum myself in the summer of 2017 was surreal. It felt like we were sharing a moment across time — her thoughts from 1986 intertwining with my own experiences.

    I remember watching teams of researchers working carefully on the ship, preserving it for future generations. The recreated colors of the Vasa were so vivid and striking — a reminder that history can breathe again when we take the time to care for it.

    Her reflection about fear — how it changes shape across generations — stuck with me. The world she knew was different, yet her words still ring true.

    Maybe that’s the beauty of shared experiences: even when years and oceans separate us, our thoughts and emotions still find a way to connect.

    vasa2

    VASA
    A picture of the lion I took at the Vasa Museum!

  • Following My Grandma’s Footsteps in Sweden: Reflections on Equality, Culture & Connection

    Following My Grandma’s Footsteps in Sweden: Reflections on Equality, Culture & Connection

    While reading through my grandmother’s travel diary from her time in Sweden, I came across an entry that stopped me in my tracks:

    “Swedes are allowed to go anywhere, eat in the grass at the palace lawn, see parks as they wish. The new law is that the Princess who is older than her brother will be queen. We Swedes are implementing equal rights for women!”
    ~ Vivian Olson, June 17th

    I found myself smiling — not just because of her words, but because I had nearly the same thoughts during my own visit to Sweden decades later.

    There’s something truly special about how open and accessible life feels there. I remember watching newlyweds taking photos outside a royal palace, families picnicking on the palace lawn, and children playing with their dogs in the gardens. In so many other parts of the world, these spaces are roped off or reserved for the elite. But in Sweden, the royal grounds feel like they belong to everyone. That sense of shared belonging left such an impression on me.

    Just as my grandma observed, Sweden continues to lead with progressive values — especially when it comes to gender equality. Women have a strong voice in government, and citizens tend to vote based on values and policies rather than gender. It’s a refreshing contrast to what I often see in the U.S., where the focus can still be on who is breaking barriers instead of why they’re leading.

    Yet, even in Sweden, there’s acknowledgment that progress is ongoing. Equality is not a finish line but a continual effort — a mindset I think both our nations are still navigating.

    I love seeing how my grandmother’s reflections and mine intertwine — two generations apart, yet observing the same beauty in everyday freedoms and the same hope for equality. Her words remind me how much our perspectives are shaped by those who came before us, and how their journeys continue to guide our own.

    Side Note: Some Swedes still feel their country has work to do in reaching full equality — which makes me wonder: how far behind is the U.S.? Are we striving toward an ideal that even the most progressive nations are still perfecting?



  • A Sense of Unity — Connecting with My Grandmother in Sweden

    A Sense of Unity — Connecting with My Grandmother in Sweden

    Peak morning, this sunny mile through peaceful wooden Sweden,
    sense of a unity of my blood with all I see.
    I wish Mom would have seen this.
    It is so wonderful to think it is my heritage,
    this graceful, serene land.
    Saw a deer back in the wood.”

    Vivian Olson, June 15th, 1986

    Reading this entry from my grandmother’s diary fills me with so much warmth. When I picture being back in Sweden, it feels like home — calm, familiar, and full of quiet beauty. In so many ways, I feel like my grandparents are there with me, walking those same sunlit paths and breathing in the same crisp air.

    During my own visit to Sweden, I often found myself thinking about those who came before me — the generations that shaped who I am today. My grandma and I both experienced the same awe for the Swedish landscape, the same peace in its forests, and the same feeling of belonging that transcends time.

    There’s something incredibly special about reading her words and realizing we shared this deep appreciation for the country that’s part of our heritage. Her poems and reflections remind me that history doesn’t just repeat itself — it connects us. Even though she’s gone, her voice continues to guide me, bridging the past and present in the most beautiful way.