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Hi, I’m Elizabeth — welcome to my cozy corner of the internet.

I write about travel, cozy living, product reviews, favorite finds, and the little joys that make life sweet.

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    The Grotto of the Redemption: A Beautiful Visit in West Bend, Iowa

    A must-see stop in northwest Iowa, The Grotto of the Redemption in West Bend is a peaceful, family-friendly place filled with stunning stonework and scenes from the life of Christ. We love visiting in late summer, and I’m sharing the moving story behind it—plus a sweet family connection that makes this spot even more special…

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  • Cozy flat lay of two slices of breakfast pizza on white plates labeled Casey’s and Pasquale’s, with coffee, orange juice, a yellow gingham napkin, and shredded cheese on a light wood table under the text “Breakfast Pizza Battle of the Midwest – Casey’s vs. Pasquale’s.”

    Breakfast Pizza Battle of the Midwest: Casey’s vs. Pasquale’s

    Breakfast pizza is basically a Midwest love language. In this post, I’m putting two local legends head-to-head: Casey’s breakfast pizza and Pasquale’s. I share what makes each one special, why Pasquale’s has my heart, and a little family story tucked in along the way.

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    🌟 Fun Things to Do Around Ames, Iowa

    Looking for family‑friendly, year‑round things to do in Ames, Iowa? From Reiman Gardens and local ice cream spots to creative escapes, cozy downtown gems, and a welcoming community, this guide highlights the places that make everyday life here special.

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  • The Royal Conversation We Needed: My Thoughts on Oprah’s Interview with Meghan & Harry 👑✨

    The Royal Conversation We Needed: My Thoughts on Oprah’s Interview with Meghan & Harry 👑✨

    Watching Oprah’s interview with Meghan and Harry was more than royal gossip — it was raw, emotional, and deeply human. As a biracial Black woman, I saw parts of my own story reflected in Meghan’s: the quiet moments of bias, the courage it takes to speak truth, and the longing to simply be seen. From…

  • 💍 My Honest Review of the Maeven Bridal Subscription Box

    💍 My Honest Review of the Maeven Bridal Subscription Box

    Wedding planning just got a whole lot sweeter! As a bride-to-be, I decided to treat myself to the Maeven Bridal Subscription Box — and it did not disappoint. From the cozy “MRS.” pom hat to the elegant glass mug and fun party décor, each item felt thoughtfully curated and full of joy. If you’re looking…

  • 🍷 My First Impressions of the New 90 Day Fiancé Season

    🍷 My First Impressions of the New 90 Day Fiancé Season

    Sunday nights are back and better than ever with a new season of 90 Day Fiancé! 🍷 From Jovi’s wild immaturity to Brandon’s overbearing parents and Rebecca’s fiery reunion with Zied, the drama is already next-level. I’m breaking down my hilarious first impressions (and maybe a few eye rolls) as I settle in with my…

  • When Everything Becomes “Toxic”: A Little Perspective on Modern Relationships

    When Everything Becomes “Toxic”: A Little Perspective on Modern Relationships

    Lately, the word “toxic” gets thrown around a lot — but not every disagreement means a relationship is unhealthy. In this reflective post, I share my thoughts on how to recognize true toxic behavior while leaving room for growth, communication, and compassion. Let’s sip some tea and unpack the difference together. 🍵✨

  • ❄️ Chilling Out at Stockholm’s Famous ICEBAR

    ❄️ Chilling Out at Stockholm’s Famous ICEBAR

    Take a break from the ordinary and step into a world made entirely of ice! From frosty cocktails to frozen thrones, my visit to Stockholm’s ICEBAR was one of the coolest travel experiences I’ve ever had. ❄️ Join me as I share a cozy, fun recap of this unforgettable Swedish adventure — frozen drinks, laughter,…

  • TLC’s I Love a Mama’s Boy: A Wild Ride I Wasn’t Ready For

    TLC’s I Love a Mama’s Boy: A Wild Ride I Wasn’t Ready For

    If you thought 90 Day Fiancé was dramatic, wait until you see TLC’s I Love a Mama’s Boy! Between overbearing moms, frustrated girlfriends, and men caught in the middle, this show is a rollercoaster of emotions I wasn’t quite ready for — but couldn’t look away from.

  • ✨ Fall FabFitFun 2020 Box Review — Worth the Hype?

    ✨ Fall FabFitFun 2020 Box Review — Worth the Hype?

    The Fall 2020 FabFitFun box arrived with exciting items, despite missing an add-on. Favorites include the blue light blocking glasses and the curling wand. The eco-friendly water bottle is cute, while the skincare serum was underwhelming. Overall, the box offered a delightful range of beauty and lifestyle products, leaving the reviewer eager for winter’s surprises.

  • First Presidential Debate of 2020

    First Presidential Debate of 2020

    Here are some memorable moments: On a more serious note, I am appalled by the divisive rhetoric spewed by President Trump. This harmful and toxic pattern needs to come to a stop. If you would like to locate a fact-checker for the debate, please click here. For a general fact-checker on candidates, click here. Here…

  • Movie Review: Mulan (Live-Action) — A Fresh Take on a Classic Heroine

    Movie Review: Mulan (Live-Action) — A Fresh Take on a Classic Heroine

    I finally watched Disney’s live-action Mulan with my fiancé this weekend, and it completely exceeded my expectations! From the stunning costume design and breathtaking visuals to Gong Li’s unforgettable performance as the witch, the film reimagines a beloved story with power and elegance. While I missed Mushu’s playful energy, I loved the deeper emotional layers…